Personal counselling, psychotherapy and coaching
I do not find it helpful to make concrete distinctions between personal counselling and personal or life coaching, or similarly psychotherapy. They each offer a safe space in which you can reflect on your life, what is working well for you and what is difficult for you.
There are some differences of emphasis:
You and your partner may wish to explore aspects of your relationship, with a third person present to facilitate your discussion. This can enable you to say what you need to say to each other and hear what it may be difficult to hear from each other. This process provides an opportunity for you to renew your relationship.
How this works
For counselling, psychotherapy and coaching to be effective, it is vital is that you find a practitioner with whom you feel safe; you are confident he or she is by your side and 'gets' you. You can test this out by having an initial meeting, starting an exploratory conversation and testing how comfortable you feel and how well they seem to understand you. If you decide to contact me for such a conversation, I will offer you an initial free consultation, normally for an hour, currently via Zoom, Skype or phone.
After the initial session, if you wish to continue we will then have some discussion about how you want to work, what you want to work upon and how it might be best to go about that in terms of length, frequency and possible number of sessions, or a more open-ended arrangement with an agreed review point. This will depend upon the issues you are bringing, and your needs and preferences.
I currently charge £45 per hour for new or returning clients seeing me for personal counselling, psychotherapy, personal and life coaching (with no charge for the intial consultation).
Please note when I start seeing a client I do not increase the fees with that client during the time of our initial period working together.